Normally, I ask my sweet husband (I am only partially being facetious) what he would like for dinner. I have started asking him the night before because invariably he picks some sort of annoyingly long cooking comfort food. I may be sounding like I do not much care for comfort food, but let me assure you you are right! I hate it! I get no comfort from comfort food. It's usually not-particularly-healthy food Grandma used to make because it was cheap. I'm as thrifty as the next guy, but I have bought into this fresh-food-for-foodies thing that we have going on. I prefer something simply grilled and served with lots of fresh veggies. I know; there is something wrong with me.
Actually, if it were up to me, I would make whatever I wanted and he could take it or leave it. But then I remember that he is really quite ill and I want him to be happy. I also suggested that we sit down and plan meal like a week at a time. I used to have to shop every day, but I did put my foot down and now I refuse to do that.
So, tonight (for tomorrow), I made a few suggestions and he said he wants none of what I've got. He wants Beef Stroganoff, Russian style. Now, I have made him Beef Stroganoff a few times and used so-called "authentic" recipes and he didn't really like them. I think this is one of those dishes that everyone has a different recipe. I have no idea what he thinks he wants, but I have cube steak and I am making Beef Stroganoff .
I looked around ye olde internetus and found lots of recipes. Many of them were for the slow cooker, but I dropped mine (grrrr) so I skipped those. I found one that claimed to be so-and-so's mother-in-law's recipe, but I had to reject that one as well. Something about boiling beef that has not even been browned first, and then rinsing and tossing out the liquid just didn't set well with me. I suspect someone's granny was saving that boiling broth for another use to stretch the budget. I found one that used tarragon and mustard. Tarragon? No. Mustard? Maybe.
Anyway, this brings me to the topic at hand. Some tips from me to you about herbs and spices.
Fresh Herbs vs. Dried Herbs
Fresh herbs are used towards the end of the cooking process; use dried if cooking for an extended time, meaning more than 15 minutes or so. I do like to start with dried herbs, then toss in some fresh during the last 15 minutes or as a garnish on a finished plate.
Dry your own herbs because they taste much, much better than that stuff you get in jars. I like to grow herbs, but sometimes that is not practical. I have been known to purchase fresh herbs just to dry them to put in jars.
You can dry herbs by tying the stems with string and hanging them upside down in a closet or something. I usually just lay them flat on a large plate overnight or sometimes two. When I put them in jars, I leave any leaves whole, then crush them when using to retain the most flavor.
Dry herbs are more potent than fresh. It is about a 3:1 ratio. If your dry herbs are not fresh (no, I am not trying to be funny), I mean older, you may need to add more than what is called for in a recipe to get the desired flavor.
If you think you do not like a particular herb use my patented four-trial-taste-plan (its not really patented). As an example: I did not like thyme. It was gross. Do people even still say "gross?" So, I would use less than what was called for in a recipe and gradually increase the amount in successive recipes that called for thyme. What I mean is I would make something using 1/4 of the amount of thyme listed. Next thing I made, I'd use 1/2 the amount listed, etc. Using just 1/4, I would think, "okay, not too bad but I still don't like it." Next recipe, "it's okay." Third time tastes pretty good. By the fourth time I used thyme, "I LOVE THYME! LETS PUT THYME IN EVERYTHING!" Same for cilantro. But for that, I also only added it at the end. Now, I prefer cilantro to parsley.
Spices
Buy whole spices and grind them yourself. Once a spice is ground up, it begins to lose flavor. Whole spices last pretty much forever.
To grind whole nutmeg, you can use a grater and just scratch it across the little holes. Other spices need a mechanical spice grinder, mortar and pestle, or a dedicated coffee grinder (one you do not use for coffee, just for spices).
Some purists will tell you to toss ground spices that are more than 6 months old. I will not. If I think a spice has lost some of its pungency, I'll just add a pinch more. Waste not; want not.
Buy the best quality that you can afford. Before I knew how to cook, I used to buy spices in the equivalent of a dollar store. Now I buy actual name brand spices sometimes and they are so much better in taste and color.
Tomorrow I promise to publish my new Beef Stroganoff recipe. I'll give you a hint. It has no cumin, no tarragon, but it does have dried rosemary. Perhaps I will also discuss my amazing rosemary plant. We'll see...